"Day 401 of my marriage hunt. First night out drinking in a while…
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작성자 ul4Tgp 작성일24-10-26 18:59 조회59회관련링크
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Yesterday I went to dinner with a friend I've known for many years and we talked.
He got married to me about three years ago (I was infected with COVID-19, and I thought this guy was crazy, so I started looking for him, and he looked after me even though he still had COVID-19 symptoms. "We're both worried about being alone, so let's live together" → "No, if we're going to live together, let's get married," and we got married after a few months of dating).
He's worked as a chef for a long time, so he can cook better than me. He's been living alone for many years, so he's also good at doing laundry and cleaning. (I once visited his house when he was living alone.)
His job is a little bad, he's fat, and he has diabetes, but other than that, he's a good person as long as we're acquaintances. He's also the same age as the late-sleeping person. His wife is three years younger than me.
It's been about a year since we last met, so I was going to ask him how it's like living with his wife!! But he asked me first how it's like living together!! lol
・On weekends, he just sleeps from morning to night. It's fine if he watches movies in his room, but he just sleeps, so it's really stressful for me. (He finds it painful to stay still)
- He doesn't even help with things that aren't even household chores like setting the table or clearing the table. Even when I ask him to help, he just keeps telling me to wait a minute.
- He has no interest in me, and it feels like he's there because I'm there.
I told him these three points.
"My wife is similar to me when it comes to the second point. lol
Sometimes she does it if I ask her to, but sometimes she just sleeps all the time while cooking and I say, "I'm not going to cook if you're so lazy
He got married to me about three years ago (I was infected with COVID-19, and I thought this guy was crazy, so I started looking for him, and he looked after me even though he still had COVID-19 symptoms. "We're both worried about being alone, so let's live together" → "No, if we're going to live together, let's get married," and we got married after a few months of dating).
He's worked as a chef for a long time, so he can cook better than me. He's been living alone for many years, so he's also good at doing laundry and cleaning. (I once visited his house when he was living alone.)
His job is a little bad, he's fat, and he has diabetes, but other than that, he's a good person as long as we're acquaintances. He's also the same age as the late-sleeping person. His wife is three years younger than me.
It's been about a year since we last met, so I was going to ask him how it's like living with his wife!! But he asked me first how it's like living together!! lol
・On weekends, he just sleeps from morning to night. It's fine if he watches movies in his room, but he just sleeps, so it's really stressful for me. (He finds it painful to stay still)
- He doesn't even help with things that aren't even household chores like setting the table or clearing the table. Even when I ask him to help, he just keeps telling me to wait a minute.
- He has no interest in me, and it feels like he's there because I'm there.
I told him these three points.
"My wife is similar to me when it comes to the second point. lol
Sometimes she does it if I ask her to, but sometimes she just sleeps all the time while cooking and I say, "I'm not going to cook if you're so lazy